Discover the Benefits of Semen Retention and Awaken Your Full Potential

Welcome brother, if you’re anything like me, you’re questioning for deeper knowledge and understanding on your journey of self actualization. Perhaps you can feel that there is much more to the sexual energy than what you’ve been conditioned to believe or perhaps you’re struggling with porn addiction or trying to figure out how to last longer in the bedroom. Whatever the case, if you’re trying to discover the benefits of semen retention and awaken your full potential, you’re in the right place.



I’ll guide you through my approach towards the path of semen retention – which over the last several years has helped me to cure my premature ejaculation, transform my approach towards lovemaking and helped me attract and develop the relationship of my dreams.

The Mystery of Semen Retention Unveiled

Semen retention is more than just sexual abstinence; it’s an intentional practice aimed at channelling one of the most potent energies in a man – his sexual energy. This practice goes beyond mere physical or psychological control as is popularized in the nofap movement; it actually involves a holistic and nuanced approach that encompasses the mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of a man’s life and relationship.

In fact, a multi-layered approach is necessary if a man wants to learn to truly harness his sexual potential because without that, he will soon find himself frustrated or overwhelmed by the energetic charge he accumulates inside himself. 

It’s not enough just to refrain from ejaculating by sheer force of will and suppress all your masculine urges and desires. You must learn to connect deeply to the sexual energy that animates your entire being.

For the men who are able to develop this capacity, it’s common to experience enhanced charisma, attractiveness, energy levels, creativity, mental clarity and even paranormal forms of development.

Not to mention the enhanced virility, testosterone levels and primal sexual desire that can be felt by the women around you. Personally I clearly noticed the difference in the way women reacted to me, once I developed a conscious relationship to my sexual energy through the practice of semen retention.

For a more detailed step-by-step guide on the benefits of not ejaculating for 30 days, check out this guide here.

Harnessing the Power of Sexual Energy

Firstly understand that sexual energy is one of the most powerful forces a man possesses. When understood and harnessed correctly, it can unlock realms of creativity, enhance physical strength, induce mental clarity, and even support spiritual awakening. 

Semen retention, also known as brahmacharya in the systems of Yoga, Hinduism, Buddhism, and Jainism generally refers to a lifestyle characterised by sexual continence or complete abstinence.

Wherein the practitioner adopts an attitude of complete devotion to the practice as an offering towards the divine, God or ‘Brahma’. In order to achieve this he must learn how to alchemise his raw sexual fluids and transform them into a lighter energetic substance (think Qi, prana, life-force or ojas). If that’s a bit woo woo for you, don’t get hung up on it at this stage and keep an open mind.

What are the benefits of semen retention?

Techniques for alchemizing the sexual energy include 

      • Intense forms of breathwork 

      • Inverted stances or poses such as the headstand

      • Intense mental focus and visualisation on moving the energy upwards

      • Deep meditation or ardent prayer

      • Sustained physical effort or exertion (think second wind in fighting)

      • Orgasms without ejaculation

    Unearthing the Benefits of Semen Retention: Awakening Your Full Potential

    As you can already start to see, this practice is much more comprehensive and nuanced than simply not ejaculating. Some of the major areas of benefit include

    1. Enhanced Physical Health

    Practicing semen retention can work wonders for your physical health. By retaining your life-force energy, you can experience higher energy levels, accelerated muscle growth, better sleep quality, and an improved immune system. I can attest to all of these benefits, I feel younger and more powerful now than I was when I was in my mid 20s.

    I’m sure by now you’ve noticed the effects of ejaculation on your brain and nervous system right? Consider the amount of energy contained in the sexual fluids and how much your body invests into its production. All manner of proteins, amino acids and enough genetic material to create new life! Think about that next time you want to squander it over some pixels on a computer screen.

    2. Heightened Mental Clarity

    Semen retention isn’t just about physical health; its impact on mental health is equally transformative. Regular practitioners often report enhanced focus, sharper cognition, and overall mental clarity. The discipline required for semen retention can enhance your productivity and instill emotional resilience. 

    For proof of this, just notice your mental state after the next time you ejaculate. There is a big down regulation of the nervous system, especially if you have been retaining for a longer time (weeks or months). I do not say this to demonize ejaculation, but to help men gain awareness over the cognitive effect it has on their mind so they can learn how to approach ejaculation consciously instead of unconsciously.

    3. Deepened Relationships

    By choosing semen retention, you will also start to experience your relationships from a different perspective. You’ll start to discover and explore the deeper layers of intimacy that become accessible when lovemaking goes longer than a handful of minutes.

    As a man who went from making love for 5 minutes to exploring tantric lovemaking for nights on end without ejaculating, trust me, it goes far deeper than you can possibly imagine. (i’ll create a future guide about the intricacies of tantric lovemaking)

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    4. Spiritual Awakening

    Semen retention also supports a man’s quest towards spiritual realisations and awakening. With practice a man can learn to direct the abundance of sexual energy he contains inside of him towards his spiritual practices. 

    This can lead to incredible states of ecstasy, profound insights and even non-dual forms of spiritual awakening. We can use the chakra system to illuminate this further by seeing the sexual energy is connected to the second chakra (close to the root) and by ascending that energy up the spine by awakening Kundalini, we can experience incredible shifts in our level of consciousness.

    Semen Retention and the Battle against Premature Ejaculation

    On the quest towards developing more control over the sexual energy and curing premature ejaculation semen retention can be extremely useful and transformative for men.

    Firstly it teaches us to become much more conscious in our approach towards lovemaking and begin using all the means necessary to cultivate a more mindful approach.

    It also helps to rewire the neural pathways that have been conditioned to link sexual pleasure and stimulation with fast ejaculation. This is a slow process that may take months or even years to change.

    If you’ve got a lifetime of porn use and all the associated negative impacts that this creates, you can bet that it will take some time to rewire those behaviours and patterns. You may wish to check out my guide for overcoming performance anxiety here.

    Semen retention also forces a man to confront his limitations head on, so if he wants to retain his energy and still make love, he’s got some serious work to do. For a lot of guys this is SR on hard mode, but it can absolutely be achieved.

    My Journey With Semen Retention and Premature Ejaculation

    Personally in my life I found premature ejaculation to be a major source of distress, that impacted not just my sexual relationships, but my overall confidence and self-esteem. It has been a major focus of my journey to understand and cure this issue and I can honestly attest to the incredible role that semen retention played in my healing journey.

    When I first discovered semen retention several years ago, I could barely last more than a few minutes in lovemaking. A lifetime of porn addiction mixed with an unconscious approach towards intimacy resulted in my nervous system being conditioned to ejaculate at a moment’s notice.

    After being introduced to the concept of semen retention in lovemaking as a part of a tantra workshop, I knew this was something I wanted to commit deeply to. Over the following years I made several trips to India and devoted myself to this practice.

    I was doing hours of daily yoga and meditation techniques, long stints of complete abstinence (the longest being 7 months) and even committed to 1 hour of headstand for multiple years in a row.

    That said, this was not ultimately what helped me to cure my premature ejaculation, though I know it helped me considerably because I was simply so dedicated. If you want to read about the full breakdown of the techniques that helped me heal, check out this guide.


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    Me with our men’s group studying sacred sexuality in India

    Balancing The Benefits and Risks: Understanding the Full Picture of Semen Retention 

    While the practice of semen retention has been lauded for its potential benefits, it’s essential to approach this practice with a comprehensive understanding. Just as there are advantages, there are also some risks associated with semen retention that every man should be aware of.

    Many men are turned off the idea of semen retention completely because it jars with their societal conditioning and even some of the common medical advice out there. I encourage you to develop a balanced approach that is both curious towards the benefits and in touch with your body and energetic structure so you may find a path that works for you.

    The Risks of Semen Retention: A Closer Look

    1. Potential for Prostate Issues

    One of the most often cited risks of long-term semen retention is the potential for prostate issues. Regular ejaculation has been linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer in some studies. While this does not mean that practicing semen retention will directly lead to prostate issues, it’s crucial to consider this potential risk, particularly for those with a family history of prostate cancer.

    Personally I’ve studied closely with teachers who claimed to have been retaining their sexual fluids for decades with no harmful effects whatsoever. It’s also important to note that the body has its own way of discharging excessive sexual energy through wet dreams (nocturnal pollution). If your worried about the potential negative side effects, especially in combination with practices like edging, check out my guide here.

    I suggest starting with periods of retention that span a week or two and continue to work your way upwards towards months. Personally I found that my body would naturally discharge through wet dreams between 2 weeks and 2 months regardless of the amount of focus, energy and time I put towards my spiritual practices.

    I have a number of friends and clients who have gone beyond 7 months, but didn’t report any major enhancements. In fact, for most men I encourage experimentation to find a frequency of ejaculation that feels healthy and sustainable according to your lifestyle and structure.

    2. Emotional and Mental Health Strain

    Semen retention does require a great deal of discipline and control, especially if you want to keep it strictly and go for consecutive months without having wet dreams. This can potentially lead to psychological strain if it’s not managed appropriately. The pressure to maintain this practice can lead to feelings of guilt or shame in case of ‘failure.’ It’s crucial to practice semen retention as a journey of self-discovery, not as a punishing regime.

    After my experiences being fanatical about semen retention as a part of the tantric path, I can certainly attest to the negative impacts it had on me when I would ‘fail’ or have an ‘accident’ during lovemaking. As men, we have enough shame to carry and overcome already, let’s refrain from an absolutist position here and explore this with enthusiasm as well as complete acceptance for where we are at and what we enjoy.

    3. Relationship Tensions

    Semen retention also has the potential to put a strain on intimate relationships. If your partner doesn’t understand or support the practice you’re doing, it can lead to misunderstandings or feelings of rejection. Women are often conditioned to believe that making a man cum is a sign of her being a good lover. 

    It’s important to maintain open and honest communication about your intentions and the reasons behind your decision to practice semen retention and seek to include her in the process.

    If done correctly, this can be a transformative experience for you and your lover and allow you to explore new depths and forms of intimacy. Most notably, the extension of the entire lovemaking experience in which both of you can access and enjoy prolonged states of multi-orgasmic bliss. You can check out my guide for unlocking transcendental sexual experiences here.

    It can also lead to the development of deeper intimacy, trust and turn on if you’re able to communicate effectively and treat the whole practice lightly and with curiosity. Believe me, there is something very attractive for the feminine about a man who can give her complete erotic freedom.

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    4. Missed Opportunity for Medical Check

    One of the benefits of regular ejaculation is that it allows men to check the health of their reproductive system. Changes in semen or ejaculation can often be the first sign of potential health problems. By abstaining from ejaculation, you might miss the opportunity to detect these changes early. Personally I’ve never had problems, but it’s worth noting especially as men age and health problems become more likely.

    5. Misdirected Energy or Blue Balls

    If the sexual energy you are building up inside you as a result of semen retention is not properly channelled, it can potentially result in agitation, frustration, or restlessness. Perhaps the number 1 complaint of men who practice semen retention is the notorious blue balls.

    In order to avoid this uncomfortable occurrence, semen retention should be paired with methods to redirect this energy, such as breathwork, stretching, yoga, meditation, exercise, or creative pursuits.

    Directing The Energy Of Semen Retention

    That leads us to finally explore perhaps the most important aspect of the semen retention practice, what you do with it. If it’s not being ejaculated, that energy must be used or directed towards something else to avoid stagnation and frustration.

    If you’re practicing semen retention I highly recommend forming a daily practice that incorporates a variety of techniques to help move that energy.

    The path of semen retention

    These can include

        • Yoga asanas

        • Qi Gong exercises

        • Meditation

        • Visualisation techniques 

        • Manifestation practices

        • Sustained cardio or HIIT workouts

        • Creative exploration (writing, painting, designing)

        • Your life’s purpose

        • Deeper connection, intimacy and time with your beloved.

        • Anything you’re madly passionate about.

      The key in all of this is your intention! So long as your focussed, present and fully invested in the activity and it’s something that lights you up, you’re likely to direct the sexual you’re retaining towards that pursuit.

      As you will discover for yourself, this can often generate remarkable results that were previously unavailable to you. There is a reason that many of the greatest visionaries, sages and successful people in history were conscious of semen retention as a practice.

      For example 

          • Muhammad Ali – Who said he would never ejaculate within 6 weeks of a fight because it made him unbeatable.

          • Steve Jobs – Who’s wife revealed he used this to drive his ambition for power and wealth

          • David Haye World heavyweight boxing champion who said “I don’t ejaculate for six weeks before the fight. No sex, no masturbation, no nothing. It releases too much tension. It releases a lot of minerals and nutrients that your body needs, and it releases them cheaply. Releasing weakens the knees and your legs. Find a lion that hasn’t had some food for a while, and you’ve got a dangerous cat. So there won’t be a drip from me. Even in my sleep — if there are girls all over me in my dream, I say to them, “I’ve got a fight next week, I can’t do anything. I can’t do it.” That’s control. I’ve been doing that since I was fifteen and its part and parcel of my preparation now. That’s why Im am who I am today — it’s down to all those little sacrifices. Find me another boxer who makes that sacrifice, and you’ll find another champion.”

          These are just a few notable examples. It should also be mentioned that the large majority of mystics, sages and saints also practiced and advocated for semen retention in the form of Brahmacharya. So for those who are spiritually inclined, there is great wisdom and insight that become available to those who walk this path.

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          Semen retention is a powerful practice with incredible potential benefits. It’s essential to approach this practice from an informed perspective, which understands that it requires more than just physical discipline. It’s a journey that involves mental and emotional dedication, open communication, and the wise management of one’s own energy.

          If you choose to practice semen retention, be mindful of the risks but also genuinely curious about the wide ranging benefits. Remember, the journey to mastering your sexuality and awakening your full potential should always be a path of self-love, respect, and understanding, not self-punishment or harm.

          Remember, as a conscious masculinity coach, I am here to guide you on this journey, helping you navigate the path to your most vibrant and powerful self. 

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          With an in-depth curriculum, step-by-step instructional videos and a tight-knit men’s group of brothers on the same path, you’ll have everything you need to massively upgrade your approach to lovemaking as well as your relationships

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